10 TIPS ON BABIES FAMILY LIFE.
TIPS ON BABIES FAMILY LIFE
If you do not have a baby, you cannot imagine how the worlds change upside down. The baby takes the center of attraction, and your whole world revolves around her. A new baby is a 24-hour-a day commitment and you will soon find out that. As parents, you have to change your routine to accommodate the new born.
Your relationship with your husband will also be modified to a great extent, whether you like it or not. There will be absolutely very less time for intimacy as compared to earlier, and it would be very wise, if both the husband and wife takes and share the responsibility.
As compared to other countries, we have parents, grandparents, In-laws, who lend us a hand of support, when the baby is born. So, for the first initial weeks, we Indian Ladies have fewer worries, as compared to our counterparts.
There are working Moms, who need to prioritize their time, and space to accommodate their little one. Whatever is your choice. Organizing your time, Planning ahead is of paramount importance.
LOVE AND SECURITY OF THE BABY
The most basic need for any newborn infant or baby, on this planet, is PHYSICAL CARE, EMOTIONAL LOVE AND PHYSICAL SECURITY. These three provided, the child will grow up to be a relaxed person. Hence, it is advisable for parents to show that extra love and support, without fearing of spoiling her. But therein lies the boundaries too. A child should not grow up thinking that, she can have anything she wants, but, she should not grow up thinking, that she was not loved and neglected.
A child’s way of seeing things is very different from ours. A kiss, a pat, a hug is much more compelling than any other thing……. It is going to shape the future of the child. And we must not forget that affection produces physical and emotional results. Hugging is also the best way of communicating with your child that you love and care for her. With physical affection a child needs to hear that you love him or her. So, do not feel shy… say I love you, once a day and see the results.
Never be shy about expressing your love for your child-it is the most important thing you will ever share.
A SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP: GRANDPARENTS
With the arrival of the baby, is the arrival of your In-laws.
Grandparents or your In-laws can be supportive or can be a source of constant tension, if your relationship with them is already strained.
A healthy relationship between a grandchild and a Grandparent is highly rewarding for the whole family and especially for the child. As they are experienced, so they can offer much more, of a relaxed attitude about your children. With them you can be also secure that your child is in safe hands.
As Grandparents see less of their grandchild so, they enjoy the parenthood, sans the worries, that parents go through. Hence, it is rewarding for them. They are somewhat free, with fewer responsibilities, so, they can spend more quality time with the child.
In today’s date and environment, most of the families are dislocate, and not everybody can enjoy the extended family, as were done earlier. But it is advisable to be with your extended family as much as possible, for the benefit of the child.
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